Salaam wa rahma
Fathers play an important role in a family, personally I don't know what I'll do without my dad, he has a solution to every single little thing you ask him (has A LOT of experience and I mean A LOTTT).
Everything he says is just 'in place' and 'at the right time', for example, if he tells me not to do something even if it's like come back early from a gathering and I listen to him, it turns out that if I didn't listen to him (stayed at the gathering) I would have had problems, sometimes I just think..Wow!! That was close!
The Father-child relationship is the defining factor of the fatherhood role in life. Most fathers are naturally protective,supportive, and responsible and are able to provide a number of significant benefits to themselves, their communities, and their children.Involved fathers offer developmentally specific provisions to their sons and daughters throughout the life cycle and are impacted themselves by their doing so. Active father figures have a key role to play in reducing behavior problems in boys and psychological problems in young women. For example, children who experience significant father involvement tend to exhibit higher scores on assessments of cognitive development, enhanced social skills and fewer behavior problems. An increased amount of father-child involvement has also proven to increase a child's socialstability, educational achievement, and even their potential to have a solid marriage as an adult. The children are also more curious about the world around them and develop greater problem solving skills. Children who were raised without fathers perceive themselves to be less cognitively and physically competent than their peers from father-present families. Mothers raising children without fathers reported more severe disputes with their child. Sons raised without fathers showed more feminine but no less masculine characteristics of gender role behaviour.
It's ni3ma kbira !^^
وَقَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلاَّتَعْبُدُواْ إِلاَّ إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّعِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلاَهُمَا فَلاَ تَقُل لَّهُمَآ أُفٍّ وَلاَتَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلاً كَرِيمًا
For thy Sustainer has ordained that you shall worship none but Him. And do good unto [thy] parents. Should one of them, orboth, attain to old age in thy care, never say "Ugh"to them or scold them,but [always] speak unto them with reverent speech,
^^ A little reminder for me before you guys here..
Answer the following question ...
What's the best piece of advise you father gave you?
As for me, I was talking to my dad recently about our relationships with people, and one thing he said to me was…''When dealing with people in your everyday life,imagine you are in the middle, and they surround you and have a rope tied around your neck, and for every piece of information you give them, this rope gets thicker. So when a problem occurs between you two, and the rope is thick enough, they can pull you and consequently injure you, in other words, they have a little bit too much information about you to the extent where they can maybe cause you big problem or even ruin you reputation…
So you shouldn't tell people too much information and keep that rope thin…