Everyone is always talking about how women should be, and what should women do and say etc.. but no one ever talks abt how men should behave!
I have many students and 80% of my students are guys so I've seen how most men act nowadays. Most of my male students are between the ages of 23 and 38 and to be honest after seeing how they behave am not surprised we have a divorce crisis since most guys are not marriage material!
Seriously men of our generation are not the best example of how men should be.
Many of them are extremely childish, selfish, lazy , arrogant, unfaithful and not practicing Muslims. [There are few good ones of course, but they're as rare as good women are in our time]
Ever since I was young, I always had two male role models who represented how real men should be like. My father and my aunt's husband [who is also like a father to me]
I think men should be kind, gentle and nice, They should care more abt their families. They should have a strong relationship with Allah () and a better understand of Deen. Not to be loose or too extreme, somewhere in the middle. Respect women starting with their mother. Honest, Generous and caring. Loyal and loving. And I think men should be more tolerant and understanding, they should support their wives and not just assume that they're only job is to make money for the family. Cuz women don't need a husband for the money, we can just have our own job and make money, women need a husband for so many reasons and none of which have anything to do with money or objects but more with emotional support, companionship, attention, romance, guidance and so on.
How do you guys think men should be like?
And why are the men of this generation behaving so badly?
~~~ Peace out ~~~